I feel so left out...

As teenagers we always feel so left out either at school, extra mural activities, youth groups or etc. and its normal J but what do you do then?? I’ve felt so left out and I talked to all my friends about it and we came up with a step by step ‘recovery route’…

Step 1

BE REALISTIC- don’t cry over those friends who ditch you all the time and don’t care about you! Don’t bother wasting your time on them. Admit to yourself that they are horrible friends and stop trying to make them good friends!

Step 2

LOOK CLEARLY AT SITUATION-if you’re in a new area you can’t just expect to make friend quickly. It takes time to make real friends rather wait the befriend people you barely like.

Step 3

SMILE-smile is the second best thing you can do with your lips. So why waste it. Trying passing a smile to any stranger you never know how long it will take for them to come up and strike a convocation with you. Who knows that stranger could become a best friend. It also helps you think about good thoughts than bad ones.

Step 4

Avoid unsociable activities- some things are just not do able when you with people for example reading your book or texting to friends. DON’T DO IT! No one likes talking to someone who is texting or reading a book it’s a no no when you want to make friends.

Step 5

BE PROACTIVE-Try going to functions or matches. Were ever you might just meet people. The more they see you they might just appear to talk to you. They can’t avoid you forever.